1

× We did a very big party last night.
√ We had/gave/threw a very big party last night. 

× My parents made me a very special party.
√ My parents gave me a very special party.

We say have a party, give a party or throw a party, NOT *do or *make.

 

2

× I go to the party every Saturday.
√ I go out/ go clubbing every Saturday.

A party is a special celebration, usually at somebody’s house. If you want to mean that you go for a drink, or you go dancing, for example on a Friday or Saturday evening, you can just use go out. You can also say go clubbing if you go to a club/discotheque.

 

3

×  I met my wife in a party.
√  I met my wife at a party.

We use at (NOT *in) before parties, celebrations, or events in general: ‘There were hundreds of people at the conference.’ ‘She wasn’t at the wedding’